Konseling Perkawinan Untuk Meningkatkan Pola Komunikasi Antar Pasangan
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https://doi.org/10.23887/jjbk.v12i1.32715Keywords:
Marriage counseling, Communication pattern, Couples, InterventionAbstract
Abstract: The purpose of this study was to resolve client complaints and prove the effectiveness of marriage counseling to improve communication patterns among couples. The research design used was a single subject research design (SSD). The subject, in this case, is a married couple who have problems related to the quality of the relationship that is not good, which is characterized by ineffective communication patterns. Before being given the intervention, the researcher conducted an assessment using the interview method, observation, family communication scale, and the couples satisfaction index (CSI) scale. The results of the assessment show that husbands and wives have different views and attitudes so that the communication pattern is not good and the partner's satisfaction score is low. The intervention used was marriage counseling for 5 sessions with the target of facilitating effective communication between the two partners. The results of the intervention showed that marriage counseling was able to improve communication patterns between husband and wife.Indonesian Abstract. Tujuan penelitian ini adalah untuk menyelesaikan keluhan klien dan membuktikan keefektifan konseling perkawinan dalam meningkatkan pola komunikasi antar pasangan. Desain penelitian yang digunakan adalah penelitian subjek tunggal atau SSD. Subjek dalam penelitian ini adalah pasangan suami istri yang mempunyai permasalahan terkait kualitas hubungan yang kurang baik, yang ditandai dengan pola komunikasi yang tidak efektif. Sebelum diberikan intervensi, peneliti melakukan penilaian dengan menggunakan metode wawancara, observasi, skala komunikasi keluarga, dan skala indeks kepuasan pasangan (CSI).Analisis dilakukan secara naratif kualitatif. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bahwa suami dan istri memiliki pandangan dan sikap yang berbeda sehingga pola komunikasi kurang baik dan skor kepuasan pasangan rendah. Intervensi yang digunakan adalah penyuluhan pernikahan selama 5 sesi dengan target memfasilitasi komunikasi yang efektif antara kedua pasangan. Hasil intervensi menunjukkan bahwa penyuluhan perkawinan mampu meningkatkan pola komunikasi antara suami dan istri.
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